The Isle of Misfit Toys Christmas Party – Jason Elkins

Sun, Dec 20, 2009

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The Isle of Misfit Toys Christmas Party – Jason Elkins

Years ago I worked for a technology startup in Michigan. I didn’t foresee the tech bubble bursting or the owners embezzling borrowing our venture capital. That organization, like many organizations at that time who were otherwise healthy, quickly collapsed and I was out of a job. This pushed me reluctantly into my first foray into independent consulting… Frustrated and angry I started looking for consulting gigs right before the holidays.

But I wasn’t alone in this. I had dozens of friends that were terminated, laid off, or had separated from their employers, who were all trying to connect with each other and share projects, resources and sometimes just an ear. These folks were working in pairs or totally independent. Another consultant and I decided it might be fun to have one large inclusive Christmas party. We joked that at this point, we were all a bunch of misfits, and stealing a line from a favorite Christmas show, we drew up some invites for the “Isle of Misfit Toys Christmas Party”.

I knew the idea resonated with folks when I started getting calls from people I didn’t know, asking if they could come!

Because of the frustration and depression I was feeling at the time, I had unintentionally unplugged myself from my network of friends and former coworkers. But the overwhelming interest in this party reminded me of the importance of connecting with others ESPECIALLY when times are difficult.

It was a great night. We called a local sports bar with a big game room and had a section reserved. We were able to share some love, some leads and a bit of grief and frustration. It was the start of the rebuilding process with many of those relationships.

I smile when I think of a group of people uniting under this “misfit banner”. I have written before about how I feel I don’t fit in from time to time, and with this band of renegade employees, unemployed professionals, consultants and independents, I felt perfectly at home.

Merry Christmas to all of you Misfits!

Love,
Jason

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Jason Elkins is the owner and editor of Transparent Christian Magazine and spends his day supporting small business with their web efforts at Keystone Business Solutions. Jason is a father of two, a husband of one and a follower of Jesus.

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4 Comments For This Post

  1. Mike Westendorf Says:

    Love it! Did you guys all sing too?

  2. Jason Says:

    HA! Yes, I think we did sing… At that time it may have been bluesy Christmas songs. :)

  3. Leslie Says:

    Jason— I think that is a great idea! I gave up on fitting in a long time ago, but that doesn’t mean that it doesn’t sting even just a little this time of year. Maybe we should all embrace being misfits a little more deliberately… I mean, do you really think He’s called us to fit in?! Love you…

  4. Kathleen Says:

    Hi Jason,
    Just finished reading the above article you wrote on being a misfit….I can really identify with your whole experience……and…….so many, many others who have most likely gone through the same situation, emotions, anger etc.

    My husband and I were both a bit older than you when the same thing happened to us…….it’s truly hard to rise above the rejection, the loss of a 17 year job and in your late 50’s trying to re-establish yourself out there in a world that just doesn’t want you anymore….it is a struggle, that’s for sure but you have to try and put on a happy face and act as if…..somehow we’ve gotten through and survived but as far as fitting in…….we’ve come to terms with that knowing it just doesn’t matter anymore. Now we’re old and retired :) and we thank God everyday for the little and beautiful things in our life now. Be Well………Kathleen

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